We don’t need new tools for how to get out of grief, we need to learn the skills for how to withstand it. We need to learn to bear witness, to look at pain without flinching or fixing or turning away. You are not helpless in the face of someone’s pain. Hearing someone’s pain and letting them have it is an amazing gift you can give. It helps. Watch Grief, Love, and the Power of Acknowledgment: Megan Devine at the World Domination Summit